A candle was lit by on February 6, 2018 5:21 AM

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I didn’t know Tyler or his family, but his handsome face and gorgeous eyes caught my attention as I was looking for another obituary. I chose the teddy bear because that’s what he reminded me of as I watched his video. The loss of a child is one of the heaviest heartaches one can carry in life. I lost a precious toddler 30 years ago, but he still resides in my heart. Each death is different - my pain is different than your pain and your pain is your own personal journey. I can recall my pain but yet can’t fully understand your pain. What I do know is that, in time, you will be able to recall Tyler with laughter and joy - it will take quite a while, but the sun will shine again, sorrow will lessen, and a song will flood your heart again. Your lives will be forever changed, but you will feel happy and blessed again.

I hope you hear Tyler in the music he loved, may you feel his presence in a gentle lake breeze, may you be reminded of his smell when you hold one of his shirts, and may you hear his laughter when his friends share stories about him. He will be with you in many ways....forever.

When the anniversary of his death comes each year, I hope you will do something for someone in need as a way to honor Tyler - maybe give a gift to a young man who is struggling and would benefit by feeling someone cares about him - you’ll find ways. Remember, a heart that is hurting can best be healed by one that has been broken.

May God carry you all in the palm of His hand until you are ready to begin walking your path to peace.

Fondly,
Another Mother with one less child

Message from Esther C

I send my sincere condolences to your family during this difficult time. This scripture brought me comfort when I lost a loved one and I hope it can do the same for your family. (Psalm 34:18) May God give you comfort and the strength to endure through this difficult time.

A candle was lit by Holly Zappitelli on December 29, 2017 8:33 PM

Message from Doug Burdick

The Aiken Family, I was so saddened to hear of John's passing. It is such a difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Doug Burdick

Expression of Sympathy

A Spathiphyllum was ordered on December 27, 2017

A candle was lit by Beverly Ruccolo Drummond on December 27, 2017 11:17 AM

Message from Phil and Lynda Rossiter

Kevin, Carrie, Linda, Bob and family, our deepest sympathy for your loss. May God give you peace and comfort.

A candle was lit by Laura Kangas Dalrymple on December 26, 2017 2:37 PM

A candle was lit by Bob, Alberta,and Robin White So very sorry for your loss on December 26, 2017 2:23 PM

A candle was lit by Phil and Sharon Parr...so sorry and our prayers are with you on December 26, 2017 11:26 AM

Message from Mike and Rena Hadlock

Your Christmas will never be the same again, and we are so sorry for that. Tyler was such a good young man and we will always remember him as that. Looking through some old family get togethers, there he was, a cute little boy always smiling and dressed to the nines. Wish we could have gotten to know him more as he grew older. But we will always remember his smile. At Terri & Brenda wedding, he was so handsome and looked in love with his girlfriend (just the way he was looking at her throughout the night). He will never be forgotten and tons of hugs and prayers to the entire family.
Love to you all!!
Rena & Mike

Message from Terry & Sue Haffey

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are sorry for your loss.

Message from Patricia Hubbard

I wish to express my sincere condolences to the family of John Tyler Aiken. It breaks our heart when death separates us from the ones we love, especially when their life is cut short. May you find comfort in your loving memories of John and in God’s promise to see our loved ones again through the resurrection. (Acts 24:15) What a joy it will be to welcome back John to a beautiful, peaceful earth (Psalms 37:10,11,29) where death will be no more! (Rev 21:4) May these scriptures comfort and strengthen you during this difficult time and in the days ahead. I am deeply sorry for your loss!

A candle was lit by RANAE KING on December 24, 2017 8:04 PM

A candle was lit by Andrea Kanyuh on December 24, 2017 4:27 PM

Message from Curtis & Betty Jo Eaton

Kevin and Carrie.
Words alone cannot express the deepest sympathy,we have for you and your family in your time of Sorrow. Our hearts are saddened and our prayers are with you. If you need anything don't hesitate to contact us.
Love and prayers
Curtis & Betty Jo
Eaton

A candle was lit by Curtis & Betty Jo Eaton on December 24, 2017 3:04 PM

Expression of Sympathy

A Spathiphyllum was ordered on December 24, 2017

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A Tradition and Splendor was ordered on December 24, 2017

Expression of Sympathy

A Sweet and Warm Remembrance Table Arrangement was sent on December 24, 2017

Dear Kevin, Carrie, Madison and Family, Keeping you close in heart and prayer for the loss of your beloved Tyler. Our Deepest Sympathy, The Miniard's ~ Greg, Jill, Jillian and Shayne

Message from Bill Stoneman

The Aiken family
First, I must say how sorry I am to hear of the loss of your son John. I have never met you or your family, but I feel the same loss. I lost my 25-year-old son Jeff to bone cancer. I do know what you are going through right now.
I know everything is dark, cold and numb right now, but I want to assure you in time the darkness will turn to light, the cold will get warm, the numbness will wear down and you will feel again. Food will regain flavor, a thought of something John did will turn into a laugh.
There will always be a huge void, but rest assured, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I just wanted to share this with you and your family.
Good Luck and God Bless you and your family

Bill Stoneman
Eastlake, OH

Message from Matt & Kim Rothlisberger

Kevin - We cannot find the words to express the sorrow we feel for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Expression of Sympathy

A Monet's Garden Table Basket was ordered on December 23, 2017

A candle was lit by Rob & Cindy Kramer on December 23, 2017 5:12 PM

A candle was lit by Bonnie Peters on December 23, 2017 2:46 PM

Message from Susan Armstrong & Family

Thoughts, prayers and condolences to and for your family. May God bless and surround you all in peace, light & love, now and forever.

A candle was lit by The Armstrong Family on December 23, 2017 2:13 PM

A candle was lit by The Sabo family on December 23, 2017 1:42 PM

A candle was lit by The Fetters Family on December 23, 2017 12:37 PM

Message from ronpaula48@outlook.com

Tyler was one of the "little people" I baby sat for, many years ago. When he came into my home, his eyes were the first thing I noticed, such a beautiful little boy and when I saw him later that boy turned into such a handsome young man. I have no words to ease this tremendous pain you all have now. I can only offer prayers for strength during this time . Paula & Ron Roberts

Message from Ron & Rosemary Langley

Sending our condolences and prayers out to Tylers’ family and all his friends. We are friends of Giovannas’ and know her heart is broken and hope she knows we are also siding our love and prayers out to her. Again, our deepest sympathies.

A candle was lit by Ron & Rosemary Langley on December 23, 2017 11:53 AM

Message from The Lemmo Family

All our love and prayers to you and your family at the loss of your beloved son Tyler. Words cannot express our heartfelt sympathy but know how much we care for you at this difficult time ❤️.

A candle was lit by Pam, Michael and McKenzie Lemmo on December 23, 2017 11:37 AM

Expression of Sympathy

A Sophistication Willow Basket Spray was ordered on December 23, 2017

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A Garden Path Vase was ordered on December 23, 2017

A candle was lit by Ron & Rosemary Langley on December 23, 2017 11:13 AM

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A Grandma's Garden Table Basket was sent by The Troy Leavery Family on December 23, 2017

A candle was lit by Pearl Ann Curtis on December 23, 2017 10:59 AM

Message from Alyson Fuller

My heart aches for your family. I am so incredibly sorry, and I will carry you all in my thoughts and in my heart. I’m sending so much love your way.

Message from Cathy Bowman (Jenzen)

I am so very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you all are going through right now. And although there are no words to ease you pain, please know that you have my deepest of sympathy.
Love,
Cathy

Expression of Sympathy

A Tropical Dish Garden with Fresh Flowers was ordered on December 23, 2017

A candle was lit by Cathy Bowman (Jenzen) on December 23, 2017 9:19 AM

Message from Bill and Connie Dalton

We are so sorry to hear of Tyler’s passing. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Message from Sonia (Specht) Haynes

So Sorry for your loss. May the memories of good times you shared comfort you through this difficult time.

A candle was lit by Joyce & John on December 23, 2017 7:18 AM

A candle was lit by Joyce & John on December 23, 2017 7:18 AM

Message from Joyce Buchanan

We are so sorry for your loss. We can't fathom the pain of loosing a child. All we can do is pray for the whole family.

Message from Janie & Nick Gildone

Our sincere sympathy to the family.

A candle was lit by Julianna Brewer on December 23, 2017 12:26 AM

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My deepest sympathies for your loss. Tyler was an amazing person and had an inspiring charisma to be around.

A candle was lit by Julianna Brewer on December 23, 2017 12:24 AM

A candle was lit by Natalie Mucci (Longmuir) on December 22, 2017 10:51 PM

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My heart is completely broken for your entire family. May your faith help you get through this very difficult time. Please know you are in my deepest thoughts and prayers. Sending all my love.

A candle was lit by Shirley Galliazzo on December 22, 2017 10:38 PM

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A Dish Garden with Fresh Flowers was sent on December 22, 2017

Our deepest sympathies. The Chiarelli Family

A candle was lit by The Silis Family on December 22, 2017 9:26 PM